Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Whatever....

Ya, Happy Valentines Days... now that's out of the way...let's focus on something really important and that is buggin the crap out of me...

Karla Homolka became a mother..

For those of you who don't know who Karla is (you obviously aren't from around here) here is a link of info for you to get to know the new mother...KARLA

How is that poor little baby going to grow up...
Even let's say, for the sake of argument, Karla is a surprisingly great mother - highly doubt it - but if she is, that kid is still soooooo screwed....

You look up to your parents as role models, reflections of who you are and could be....good and bad....
You gage your self acceptance on what people think of you and your family...
EVEN if you are given the tools and support to look outside of your family, the truth still remains that his "mother" raped and killed her own sister, kidnapped, raped, tortured, and murdered others...

And let's just for a moment look at who the father of this child is - What the hell was he thinking??? What would be the appeal of this woman???
This part is fascinating because human nature is soo intriguing
There is no way that this guy was not aware of her past so why would you want a relationship with her??? What type of a guy does this make him - a saint or sicko???
I suppose to some, hopefully a very small some, her twisted past may make her an exciting fuck... but then to start a family?? Christ, who knows, maybe they never planned on the child... (now that just opens up another issue I have with unplanned pregnancies...let's just walk away from that for now)

I know the families of her victims are outraged and rightly so...but I just can't help thinking about that poor innocent baby - although she created his life she ultimately will ruined his life, intentionally or not.....

Motherhood is a privilege - just because you can birth a baby doesn't mean you should.....

Okay, steps off soapbox now....

4 comments:

Twyla said...

When I heard that news today, I was totally shocked. She does NOT deserve to have a child...I don't even believe she should be out of jail. It's horrible to say, but I hope they take the baby away from her. It's the only way it will have a chance at a normal life.

maybetomorrow said...

Hi Twyla - it's my understanding that the Quebec CAS does not have grounds to apprehend the child so he will remain with mom until they can justify his removal...

I work with CAS here and contrary to popular belief it is not as easy as people think to have children removed from parents custody....

Nicki said...

Wow. I can't even begin to say how I feel because this is just too much to digest at once.

Unbelievable.

Steven said...

"Motherhood is a privilege - just because you can birth a baby doesn't mean you should....."

Couldn't agree more.

Steve~